This weekend, I came across a quote that struck a deep chord: "There are three types of people you will attract into your life: a mirror, a window, or a door." While its origin is somewhat elusive, the idea is inspired by Dr. Rudine Sims Bishop's 1990 essay on how literature serves as mirrors reflecting our own lives, windows offering glimpses into others' experiences, and sliding doors opening new worlds to explore.
As I prepare to attend an upcoming conference with valued colleagues and friends, I realize how well this concept resonates with the art of intentional networking and relationship building. Too often, people approach networking with either unrealistic expectations—hoping for a quick lead or magical "golden ticket" deal—or they treat it as just another social event. Both approaches miss out on the transformative power of authentic connection.
Intentional networking, on the other hand, starts with preparation: having a clear sense of the program, understanding who will be in the room, and knowing the value you bring to the table. This week, I look forward to honoring those who show up with a spirit of generosity, those who act as mirrors reflecting shared experiences, those who serve as windows into new perspectives, and those who open doors to fresh opportunities. Together, we build a community where our collective talents and insights flourish, and that, to me, is the true gift of gathering.
